curousities.

• how not to project your state of being onto others?
• can attachment and freedom co-exist?
• how to be vulnerable without enabling the savior complex?
• what is people’s average prior on me?

good words.

• do you want to unpack this w me?
• teach me how to be your ___. manager, partner, etc
• “what else would be helpful?”
• “to reflect back to you what you just said”
• “help me understand you”

good things to ask yourself.

• what prior do i have on other being? where is it coming from?

say what needs to be said

I have a tendency to often supplement my thinking with long because / thinking statements. Does it need to be said tho? what is the shortest direct answer i can give?

and btw, “no” and “why” are complete sentences.

in attack: approach with scientist/outward thinking

also see what is the essence of the question