vocabulary

- to reflect back,…

- teach me how to be your <manager, partner, friend, x>

- i am so attracted to your ___x___ because i so deeply desire my x.

- i desire you to __

- can i hold a projection? i see you as x because i am so afraid to be seen as __x__.

- i want you to __ for me. [no, yes if _]

- i created distance from you by ___ and what i want for us is ___.

- if i say no to ___, i am afraid they will ___.

- help me understand you

- emotional containers. containirizing.

- what its like to share this with me?

- what do you see?

- i sense, i notice, i observe

- can we zoom into this micromoment

- can we breathe together?

- and how does it feel to be unheard by me?

- what is alive in you?

- would you like me to simply listen or respond?